The Core Pulse
Dr. Gregg A. Pizzi (Psychologist & Gay Men's Relationship Coach) goes deep on how to identify and eliminate gay men's unconscious thoughts, habits and emotional patterns that keep them single and alone so they can attract real, authentic men for loving partnership in his VIP Mentorship Program.
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Pillar Focus: Chronically Single Behaviors
From Passive Scroller to Intentional Creator
Let’s get real for a moment.
The #ProperlyPartnered system isn’t built for passive observers.
It’s not a spectator sport. It doesn’t work if you just sit in the Facebook group, watch others grow, “heart” the occasional post, and then disappear into your thoughts and your routines. If that’s what you’re hoping for, this probably isn’t for you.
This work is for men who are ready to stop watching and start becoming.
Because here’s the truth:
👉 WANTING a relationship isn’t the same as CREATING one.
👉 Intention requires action—not just longing, journaling, or listening to podcasts.
👉 Breakthroughs come to those who are willing to stretch, reflect, and do something different.
And yes—sometimes that means doing something uncomfortable.
Sometimes it means looking at yourself honestly.
Sometimes it means being willing to hear the truth: that it wasn’t just “bad luck” that’s kept you single. It was unconscious choices, beliefs, behaviors. The good news? Those can change. Quickly. Powerfully. For good.
In last week’s livestream, we peeled this open. We talked about what it means to be a passive bystander—someone who waits, scrolls, spectates, and hopes that love will somehow find them through osmosis. Spoiler alert: It doesn’t.
But here's the thing…
You’re not here reading this because you want to stay stuck.
You're here because you suspect there is something more—and you're ready to reach for it.
❌ This is not for you if:
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You want a partner but are unwilling to change a single thing about how you approach men, love, or yourself.
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You think the right man will just “show up” if you stay home, stay guarded, and stay scrolling.
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You’re committed to your stories about why nothing ever works for you and why you’re the exception to every success.
✅ But if you're the kind of man who:
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Is open to looking inward and uncovering the patterns that push love away…
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Wants tools, structure, and real coaching, not empty affirmations or toxic positivity…
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Is ready to become emotionally available, visible, and energetically magnetic to other men…
Then you’re the man I can help.
And trust me—when you do show up, take the steps, and get aligned?
Things can change fast. I’ve seen men connect with great guys within days of getting clear and taking intentional steps. I’ve seen the most avoidant, jaded, or shy members of this group go from ghosted to grounded, from confused to clear, from passive to powerful—just by showing up for this process.
The #ProperlyPartnered system isn’t magic.
But it is a tested, psychology-based framework that combines insight, action, and emotional intelligence to help gay men finally experience the kind of connection they’ve dreamed about but never known how to build.
So if you're ready to stop consuming content and start living the transformation, then you're exactly who I created this for.
From the Group
Free Facebook Group Highlights
The Facebook group's Saturday morning livestreams on Zoom bring together courageous men who are ready to say:
“No more being on the sidelines.”
We talk openly about the fears that keep us stuck—past hurts, rejection, performance anxiety—and we don’t just vent.
We support each other.
We share tools.
We choose to move forward anyway.
🗣️ One man said in the Masterclass, “This is the first time I’ve spoken about this out loud.”
That’s the power of community. And that’s what the group is for.
Masterclass Replay
July 19, 2025
Unlock the Power of Your Membership: How to Go from Passively Watching to Actively Partnering
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July 26, 2025
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Client Spotlight
Denny
⭐️ VIP Student
Scholarship Winner
Denny's Breakthrough
Meet Denny, one of our VIP Members who came in ready to grow.
He started tracking his behaviors, noticing his patterns, and shifting his energy.
Within weeks, he’s attracting men more easily, enjoying the process, and choosing connection with intention—not fear.
His optimism is real, and it’s magnetic.
Denny’s Rise: From Uncertain to Unstoppable
Denny is the very first recipient of the #ProperlyPartnered VIP Student Scholarship—and an early example of what’s possible when you combine vulnerability with commitment.
When Denny entered the #ProperlyPartnered world, he wasn’t sure what to expect. Like many gay men, he was used to doing the inner work alone—quietly, in pieces, without structure, without community, and definitely without consistent support.
But he knew something needed to change.
He wasn’t new to the idea of growth. What he was new to was this:
✔️ Doing the work within a framework.
✔️ Being seen while doing it.
✔️ Taking action before everything felt perfect or safe.
Since joining the VIP program, Denny has dived in headfirst—with courage, self-reflection, and a willingness to be uncomfortable. And it’s paying off.
He’s now:
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Actively tracking his habits and thought patterns using the #ProperlyPartnered tools
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Getting curious instead of self-critical
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Experimenting with new behaviors around men, rather than staying stuck in old avoidance
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Reframing rejection as redirection
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Tuning in to his energy, and watching how it shifts what he attracts
And here’s the really exciting part:
He’s already noticing that quality men are more available to him than he ever realized.
But here’s the catch: those men didn’t change — Denny did.
His vibe is different. His attitude is lighter. His focus is clearer. He’s moving from a place of lack (“Where are all the good guys?”) to a place of ownership (“I create who I attract.”). And he’s doing it all with a sense of grounded optimism—not fantasy, but real, eyes-open joy.
He recently shared how much he’s enjoying his interactions with men again—not chasing, not performing, not shrinking. Just being himself. More and more, he’s realizing that he alone determines the kind of men who show up in his life, by choosing how he shows up in his own.
It’s no accident. It’s not luck. It’s deliberate, aligned action—and it’s exactly what the #ProperlyPartnered method is designed to produce.
👏 Please help me congratulate Denny—not just for being the first official scholarship recipient, but for becoming a walking, living, breathing example of what’s possible when you stop waiting and start working.
👀 We see you, Denny!
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Community Wins
💬 Matthew, from Des Moines, Iowa, recently joined Tier 1—Awakened & Aware, and has already begun to see how much control he has over the way men show up in his life. Manny, who recently relocated to Phoenix, Arizona to start a new adventure, coupled his new start with gifting himself a membership in Tier 2—Activated & Aligned. Manny shared his personal blocks and is already shifting how he shows up with men.
❤️ Patrick, who joined our Signature VIP Transformation last year, met his new beau—and credits the work he did here for making space for it.
🧠 Edward, a dentist from Scottsdale, Arizona—and the sweetest fellow you'll ever meet—is confronting long-ignored emotional material with courage and clarity—and stepping into a new version of himself.
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Ask Dr. Gregg
Psychologist
Relationship Coach
Board-Certified Sex Therapist
Hey, Charles! Thank you so much for sharing this. I just want to say first — I really see you. Your honesty and vulnerability here are powerful, and they matter. You’re not alone in feeling unsure or even stuck. So many of us have felt the same way at different points in our journey — especially when it seems like we’ve been doing so much life, but somehow haven’t quite figured out how to make love and connection work the way we hoped.
First of all — welcome. Truly. The fact that you posted means you have started. You’ve taken a step. That matters more than you think. And turning 58? That’s not a reason to feel behind — it’s actually a signal that now is the perfect time to do things differently. Not by chasing more, but by going deeper into who you are and what you want. There’s nothing wrong with you. You haven’t missed the train. But you may have been looking on platforms that were never meant to take you where your heart truly wants to go.
In #ProperlyPartnered, we don’t just talk about meeting men — we talk about becoming the version of ourselves who attracts and chooses wisely. The kind of partner we want wants us too — but only when we’re being fully ourselves, not performing or pretending.
So I want to gently invite you to give yourself some grace. You’ve made it here. You’re exploring something new. You’ve still got time, and you’re not starting from scratch — you’re starting from experience.
Stick around. Ask questions. Watch the livestreams. Try some of the exercises in the Guides section of the Facebook group. And if you ever want more support, this space (and my inbox) are open. You deserve love that feels mutual, energizing, and real. And I believe it’s still fully possible for you.
With you on this journey,
Dr. Gregg 💙
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